“…a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one. This is a great mystery, and I mean in reference to Christ and the Church” Ephesians 5:31-32
“The Sacrament of Matrimony signifies the union of Christ and the Church. It gives spouses the grace to love each other with the love with which Christ has loved his Church; the grace of the sacrament thus perfects the human love of the spouses, strengthens their indissoluble unity, and sanctifies them on the way to eternal life”
Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1661
You must be free to marry.
Given the numbers of weddings at Brentwood Cathedral, we require at least six months notice of marriage in order to allow sufficient time for the preparation of couples and to complete the civil and religious paperwork. This also applies to couples who are getting married abroad.
To arrange a meeting with the Cathedral Dean please contact the parish office.
Couples spend a great deal of time preparing for their wedding day: what they will wear, who they will invite, reception venues and so on. In the same way, it is important that you fully understand the meaning of Christian marriage and have given proper time to reflect on it. What foundations will you build your married life on?
As you are freely asking to get married in the Church and you will make sacred vows before God, the Church now asks you to prepare for the sacrament of matrimony or Christian marriage.
If you are not already doing so, by coming as a couple to Sunday Mass. In this way, you are bringing your relationship to God and asking him to deepen and strengthen it. At the same time, you show that your request to receive the sacrament of matrimony is a serious one.
By attending our marriage preparation sessions.
Session 1 Saturday 17th June 9.30 -11.00 a.m. in the Cathedral parish hall: What is the meaning of holy matrimony?
Session 2 Saturday 24th June 9.30 – 11.00 a.m. in the Cathedral : What happens at a wedding?
Please contact the parish office to book onto this preparation course.
Please book on to these sessions by contacting the parish office.
For Catholics, a currently-dated baptismal certificate from the church where you were baptised. For christened non-Catholics, a copy of your certifcate
A statutory declaration of freedom to marry for each party, notarised by a Commissioner for Oaths (Solicitor). The priest or deacon celebrating your wedding will supply you with a statutory declaration form.
From your local Registry Office: Couples will need to give notice of their marriage to the local Register Office where they live. They must make sure that they do this in very good time. Once notice is given, they will be given a Marriage Schedule in advance of the wedding. This must be given to the priest or deacon as soon as the couple receive it. This can be done either in person or by posting it through the door of Clergy House in a clearly marked envelope.
A £50 cheque, made payable to “Brentwood Cathedral Parish”, for marriage paperwork that will involve the Chancery of the diocese, such as a marriage between a Catholic and a non-Catholic Christian, or a non-baptised person, or a marriage ceremony outside the diocese. This is to cover administration costs for the Diocese of Brentwood.
Please choose one or two readers who will read your scripture choices with confidence, sincerity, and clarity.
All readings must be from the Bible.
Here is a selection of possible texts for you to consider: Scripture readings for Catholic Weddings
Please note that only SACRED MUSIC can be used at weddings. There are no facilities to play recorded or downloaded music.
You will have to consider choosing:
An organ bridal march
Two or three hymns that your family and friends will recognise and sing
Possibly a solo choral piece to be sung by a member of the Cathedral choir during the signing of the marriage schedule
In order to maintain the high standard of music in the Cathedral parish, the Cathedral Music Department normally provides the organist and any soloist or singers requested for a wedding.
The Cathedral Music Department must be informed of musical choices at least two months before your wedding day.
For any further information or advice about music please contact the Master of Music, Andrew Wright, by email music@dioceseofbrentwood.org
The flower arrangements must be from our dedicated florist. Roisin Cassels and her team are responsible for all flower arrangements in the church. You may ring her on 07845 120310. The fee for flower arrangement is £60 and the amount you wish to spend on flowers is up to you.
The use of confetti of any kind is not permitted either inside or outside the church.
You can employ any photographers, but they will only be allowed to stand at designated places in the Cathedral. They must remain in one position during the wedding itself as it can be very distracting for the couple, the priest and the congregation if photographers are moving around. Please make your photographer(s) aware of this.
Marriage Tribunal paperwork
£50 to cover diocesan administrative costs
Getting Married Abroad
£50 for marriage paperwork if getting married abroad
Registrar
Fee for the registrar is £50
Music
Organist £180; Soloist £110, additional singers £25 each
Flowers
Flower arrangement costs £60 and the amount you wish to spend on flowers is up to you.
Donation to Priest or Deacon
A suggested donation would be £300.00
Please pay either by
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Brentwood Cathedral began in 1861 as a parish church built in a Gothic style. This relatively small building was raised to cathedral status in 1917. Between 1989 and 1991 the church was enlarged in an Italianate classical style.
The new Brentwood Cathedral was dedicated by Cardinal Basil Hume on 31 May 1991 and in 2022 the cathedral was listed at Grade II.
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